{"id":112317,"date":"2018-02-07T08:25:20","date_gmt":"2018-02-07T08:25:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/?p=112317"},"modified":"2022-01-19T16:16:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T15:16:04","slug":"blogger-spotlight-naomi-lewis-the-naomi-narrative","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/blog\/blogger-spotlight-naomi-lewis-the-naomi-narrative\/","title":{"rendered":"Blogger Spotlight: Naomi Lewis, The Naomi Narrative"},"content":{"rendered":"

Naomi Lewis<\/a> writes The Naomi Narrative<\/a>, which was recently ranked in the Top 10 UK Relationship and Dating Blogs<\/a>. Naomi started her blog after an unbelievably crappy date, and now shares experiences of dates as well advice around sex and relationships. We spoke to Naomi about the best date she\u2019s ever been on, making a good impression and working with brands on campaigns. <\/strong><\/p>\n

What makes your blog successful?
\n<\/strong><\/span>I’m not sure I could pinpoint one certain thing but definitely shameless self-promotion to get my work out there has had an effect. Also, I would’ve though the honesty behind my writing. I don’t just fluff things up for the sake of it, I get right into the nitty gritty and I think people really appreciate the tough love approach.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the best date you\u2019ve ever been on?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>It’s nothing grand, I went for a meal and a dance. Sounds pretty plain, right? It was, but great dates are all about the company you keep. We weren’t even meant to be seeing each other this night and I got a text saying, \u2018I’ve booked your favourite place at 6 for dinner, I’ll meet you there\u2019. Great start \u2013 love the romantic spontaneity, and it just got better.\u00a0We kept having to send the waitress away because we were gabbing that much we hadn’t had time to even consider what to order, we had a great meal and then went on to have a drink, a dance and a laugh for the rest of the night.<\/p>\n

What made this such a great date when it sounds so normal? It was thoughtful, and it was so easy. Just a simple meal and a drink was one of the best dates ever \u2013 no grandeur, no forward planning, no massive expense \u2013 just good company and great chemistry.<\/p>\n

What top tips would you give to people to make a great impression on a first date?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>Always answers questions with questions to keep the conversation flowing, there is nothing worse than an awkward silence but if you make an effort to keep things ticking over, then you’ll never have to worry about that! Also, remember the old saying \u2018you never get a second chance at a first impression\u2019 because it’s totally true \u2013 don’t be afraid to get dolled up to the nines or suited and booted, and keep smiling \u2013 it’s infectious.<\/p>\n

What does Valentine\u2019s Day mean to you?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>I mean, sure, it’s a good excuse to spoil your partner but IMO, it’s become a bit of a Hallmark season now. I think and people can go a little overboard which is, of course, fine as everyone’s different. In my opinion, the little things throughout the year adding together mean more than a grand gesture on Valentine’s Day would \u2013 but like I said, that’s just me.<\/p>\n

How much is your content about you and your experiences, and how much is it about others?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>It’s a real mixture of both. I’ve written a lot about my own dates, the single life and my emotions\u00a0and now that I’m in a long-term relationship, I write about the trials and tribulations of being in a relationship \u2013 the good, the bad and the ugly! I also find it useful to write up things I’ve learned that are happening in the dating scene too. For instance, new apps and their pros\/cons, new dating trends that are surfacing, and a bit of the psychology behind dating and relationships too. It’s all SO interesting and the great thing about it is that EVERY SINGLE PERSON can relate to it all.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s your favourite thing to write about?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>I’m a bit six-of-one-half-a-dozen-of-the-other when it comes to my favourite writing style. I do like to get deep with some posts and really explore why we do what we do and what happens when, etc, and go into a bunch of detail, of course with a positive spin on it all. Like this one<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, I have just as much fun writing blogs that are a little more risqu\u00e9 but putting in a little humour too to take the \u2018awky\u2019 edge off. Like this one<\/a>.<\/p>\n

How do you like to work with PRs and brands?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>I guess it all depends on the brand\/campaign. I really like to put my own spin on things and the brand\/campaign has to be inexplicably linked to dating\/relationships because my content always has to stay true to my own brand. The brands I’ve worked with so far have been great because there’s always been give and take and being able to communicate exactly what you want to achieve from either end ensures that everyone gets what they want out of the campaign \u2013 which is the dream right?
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\nAre there any stand out campaigns that you have been involved with?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>I’ve worked with all sorts of brands, from lingerie and sex toys, to greetings cards, health and wellbeing, and apps. There has been a whole plethora of different campaigns I’ve been lucky to be a part of but I would say the biggest things to come out of my blog are my columns.<\/p>\n

Due to the success of my blog, I’ve landed myself a column in #DATING<\/a> \u2013 the only dating magazine on the market\u00a0<\/strong>and I have a weekly column talking all things dating, sex and relationships in real life magazine Loveit!<\/p>\n

What do you call yourself (blogger\/influencer\/content creator)?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>I’d definitely call myself a blogger because I’m all about the writing. Of course, I appreciate other blogs with beautiful photos but for me, blogging’s all about the words.<\/p>\n

What other blogs do you read?<\/span>
\n<\/strong>I must admit, I love reading other dating and relationships blogs, it’s always good to see difference in perspective and opinion on subjects you’re interested in! For instance, All Sweetness and Life<\/a>, Never Settle<\/a> (Eve Greenow), etc.<\/p>\n

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Naomi is listed with her blog\u00a0on the\u00a0Vuelio Influencer Database<\/a>\u00a0along with thousands of other leading bloggers, journalists and editors.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Naomi Lewis writes The Naomi Narrative, which was recently ranked in the Top 10 UK Relationship and Dating Blogs. Naomi started her blog after an unbelievably crappy date, and now shares experiences of dates as well advice around sex and relationships. We spoke to Naomi about the best date she\u2019s ever been on, making a good impression and working with brands on campaigns.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":400,"featured_media":112318,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7365,7272,4038,6980],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112317"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/400"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=112317"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112317\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":137838,"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112317\/revisions\/137838"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=112317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=112317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=112317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}