{"id":128375,"date":"2020-02-20T15:02:11","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T14:02:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/?p=128375"},"modified":"2020-02-20T15:02:11","modified_gmt":"2020-02-20T14:02:11","slug":"dating-blogger-spotlight-with-natalie-lue-baggage-reclaim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vuelio.com\/uk\/blog\/dating-blogger-spotlight-with-natalie-lue-baggage-reclaim\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating Blogger Spotlight with Natalie Lue, Baggage Reclaim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes blogs are inspired by bad dates, sometimes by a mix of \u2018bubble guts and a busy mind\u2019. Natalie Lue\u2019s Baggage Reclaim<\/a> was born from a combination of all three and has since become our top relationship and dating blog in the UK<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t yet a Reclaimer, read on for more on that killer combo that kickstarted Natalie\u2019s love affair with blogging, as well as the most romantic places in the world and some baggage-related dramas. <\/strong><\/p>\n

How did you originally get started with writing about relationships?<\/span><\/strong>
\nIt started with a bad date and me wondering why I\u2019d say that I wanted to be with a \u2018nice guy\u2019 but then feel bored and turned off by them. I woke up in the middle of the night with bubble guts and a busy mind thanks to the dodgy date dinner \u2013 ten minutes later, I had my then-personal blog. And here I am almost sixteen years later.<\/p>\n

How do you stay enthusiastic (and not cynical) about Valentine\u2019s Day?<\/span><\/strong>
\nI’m not, and never really have been, into Valentine’s Day. Even as a child, it bemused me how it changed people for a week or two! It was the anxiety over gifts and cards, and whether they were loved. My husband and I pick and choose which year we want to give each other cards. We do it for a laugh and to get sentimental.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the most romantic place in the world?<\/span><\/strong>
\nTough call, as I absolutely love New York and have wonderful memories of trips there with my husband. I\u2019m going to say Paris, as he surprised me with a trip there for my 40th. There is something magical about it. I highly recommend going on an electric bike tour for a few hours.<\/p>\n

What is the worst date you\u2019ve ever been on?<\/span><\/strong>
\nToo many to choose from. I\u2019ve previously said it was a guy who was stoned out of his tree (I didn’t realise until towards the end of our date). He was very pervy straight away, and after I tried keeping him at bay, he tried to make a move when he dropped me home. I declined and so he proceeded to touch himself up as I exited the car…<\/p>\n

Has blogging about relationships ever impacted your own relationships in real life?<\/span><\/strong>
\nYes. One acquaintance stopped talking to me \u2013 she read my blog after finding out about it in a newspaper and fumed that I\u2019d said she served us all Blue Nun at her party (she did). And someone else thought I was talking about their relationship (I wasn\u2019t) and that I\u2019d written about them revenge-cheating on their ex.<\/p>\n

What are your favourite dating shows?<\/span><\/strong>
\nI don’t really watch dating shows any more, although I loved watching Take Me Out<\/em> \u2013 it’s a fascinating social experiment that teaches a lot about misconceptions around compatibility and attractiveness. My husband watches Dinner Date<\/em> and Dress To Impress<\/em> religiously, so I sometimes catch a bit of those.<\/p>\n

How do you collaborate with brands and which kind do you really like working with?<\/span><\/strong>
\nI don’t currently collaborate with brands for Baggage Reclaim. I built a lot of brand relationships from when I ran Bambini Goodies and the now-defunct Nest Goodies, so if I am occasionally gifted something it’s through personal relationships.<\/p>\n

For PRs looking to work with you and your blog\/website, how would you prefer they approach you and with what kind of content?<\/span><\/strong>
\nI am open to working with brands, but I do get turned off by stock approaches and requests for reviews. DM me on Instagram or drop me an email. In order for me to work with a brand, it has to offer as much value to my audience as it does to me, so we have to share core values. The likelihood is that it would be for the podcast, Instagram or for collaborating on an event. Book publishers, wellness, eco-friendly, and sustainable and creative brands are certainly of interest.<\/p>\n

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